viper 5607v rs wont turn off

the third acc has a 4 pin relay terminals 86 and 87 have constant fused 12v+, terminal 85 has the orange wire from h2/23. and terminal 30 goes to the acc wire dark blue/lt grn.

That's correct, program pink/white IGN 2 as ACC2.

i believe thats menu 3, item 8, option 2 i did that as well.

got to look at it some more today. With the key off i de-pinned the remote start harness and started plugging them in one at a time. with all the pins in except for the pink and pink/white wire. the truck would stay off. if i plugged back in the pink/white wire my blower motor would turn on and if id plug in my pink wire the truck would immediently try and start. any ideas on these two wires? pink/ white wire is soldered directly to RED / black on the ignition switch which shows 12v in run. and the pink wire is soldered directly to the wht / YELLOW wire which shows 12v in start or run

Looks like you might have a faulty unit, never seen one myself but...

I agree just supplied voltage to h1/1, h3/2, h3/5, h3/9 which are all the fused 12v connections and supplied ground to h1/2. with those connections i read 12v at the starter output so something must be shorted out inside the unit.