2000 sentra alarm

I'm following the wiring locations/colors from this link https://www.the12volt.com/installbay/forum_posts.asp~TID~1223 I can't get a few things to work properly with a Performance Teknique 2 way cal alarm with remote start. 1. The park lights don't flash when I unlock or lock the doors. 2. I'm not sure how to connect the dome light. The manual says "Come Light Output:This output is only intended to drive a relay. It can not be connected directly to the dome light circuit as the output can not support the current draw". 3. In regards to the "starter wire" the link above says both wires must be powered to start. What I did was connect the "starter ouput" wire on the remote start harness to both of the start wires listed above. Is that correct? 4.There is a "blue wire" that allowed a two stage door lock operation where if you press unlock once, only the driver door opens and if you press twice all the doors open. The manual doesn't say where to connect this wire. Other than that, I have the system up and running. WOOT! not bad for a first time installer.