2000 Dodge Stratus horn honk

HI, I have a Dodge Stratus 2000 and my alarm is a CLifford 3.5 mATRIX,,  the wire from the siren (alarm) is the same as the Horn, but if i connected both the siren and the horn will not sound good, because the alarm use constant and the horn Pulsed, well the thing is that im connecting it to the Illumination wire using 2 relays

relay # 1

86& 87 go to fused 12v constant

85 goes to the orange wire from the 3.5x (ground when armed)

30 goes to relay # 2's 86

(the rest of relay#2)

87 goes to (-) if the horn is negative trigger/goes to (+) if the horn is positive trigger.( make sure you verify this with your dmm. )

30 goes to the horn trigger wire of the vehicle

85 goes to the BLACK/ white from the 3.5x (this is the domelight supervision wire and will provide your pulsed output for the horn to honk.)

ok, this is the thing, on the diagrams my car it says.

I foound the Whit connector that has three wires which if I umplug the connector the horn does not sound, but  there are three wires, (none of then are GREEN/ black) there is one  which is a bron (which is - and does not change polarity when the horn is sounding, there is the second wire which is a RED / green this is wire is - and does not change polarity) and the third wire is a BLACK/ RED which is + and does change the polarity IS goes down everytime i press the honk,.

I dont know which one to connect and if it negative or positive and what relay to use.

thank you

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