viper 5101 remote start to 1997 4runner

I have the viper 5101 wire diagram and the Toyota wire diagram. I am trying to connect all the dots in between. Does anyone have the answers? Thanks

This is what I have so far:
primary harness h1- 12-pin conn. of the viper 5101 to 1997 toyota 4runner w/factory vip rs3000 security system
h1/1   not used
h1/2 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?)
h1/3 to -horn trigger grn/rd
h1/4 to ?
h1/5 to chassis ground
h1/6 to ?
h1/7 to ?
h1/8 to -left front door trigger blk/wht
h1/9 to ? -door trigger blk/wht?
h1/10 to ?
h1/11 to?
h1/12 to ?

aux harness h2 7-pin conn.

h2/1 to ?
h2/2 to ?
h2/3 to ?
h2/4 to ?
h2/5 to ?
h2/6 to ?
h2/7 to ?

heavy gauge remote start h3 8-pin conn.

h3/1 to + ignition 1 blk/yel
h3/2 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?)
h3/3 to accessory blu/rd
h3/4 to starter (car side) blk
h3/5 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?)
h3/6 to ignition 2 blk/yel or blk/rd (which one is better?)
h3/7 ?
h3/8 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?)

remote start input 5-pin conn.
1 to chassis ground
2 to igniter (pass. side inner fender)
3 to +12v brake switch light lead @ pedal
4 to hood pin
5 ?

remote start auxiliary output 5-pin conn.
1 to ?
2 to ?
3 to ?
4 to ?
5 to ?

door lock harness 3-pin conn.
1 to - ?power lock rd/wht?
2 not used
3 to - ?power unlock rd/yel?

All of the ?'s are things that I'm unsure about. How do I get my rear defrost to come on as an option? Do I need anything extra?
which light flash polarity setting should I use?
Will the control center receive a signal if its mounted in the glove box or should it be on the wind shield?
I have the install guide also, for programing. I don't have any q's about that.
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks.