2008 civic immobilizer bypass

I have an 08 civic, and am trying to put in a remote start.  I have an xpresskit canmax 400 bypass kit, but it has the wrong firmware on it.  I told them I had an 08 civic, and they gave me one with DLPKKICH8 on it.  I got the instructions off the xpresskit website for my car, and wired up as written, but the unit isn't programming.  Is this just because I have a unit with a different firmware on it.  Just to be sure that I have the right wiring, I hooked up the SINGLE WIRE CAN to a light green wire in the car, and the immobolizer data wire to a pink wire in the car.  (pins 3 and 4 if I am looking at the harness properly.  The pink wire MUST be right, as it is in pin 4 no matter which way you have the harness.  The other wire might need to be moved to a blue wire in the car, if I am looking at the harness wrong.  Any input would be helpful.  I am hoping if I just get the unit flashed with the right firmware, that I am golden.   Thanks!xxxooo

It's the lime green connector at the ignition switch. Pin 4 is a pink which almost looks like an orange. Pin 3 is a light green if memory serves correctly. Pin 1 is a black wire.Prepare your future. It wasn't the lack of stones that killed the stone age.