disable factory alarm

Hi, does anyone know how to disable the factory alarm on a '98 Intrepid ES? Thanks.

|FCTRY ALRM DISARM|lt. GREEN/ orange    |+ |drivers kick panel          | no need to disable factory alarm, just disarm it.Houston,TX

"The two most common elements in the universe are H+ and stupidity" (Ellison).

Yes, I know of that wire and have tried to disarm it that way with no luck. I have a remote start system that delivers a negative for the factory alarm shutdown. I installed a relay and it still doesn't work. I even tested to see if I had the correct lt.GREEN/ orange wire since there seems to be another wire similar to that color in that stash of 50 wires. If I remember right when the alarm is armed that wire will have 12V power. Once disarmed it won't have any. The only reason I'm messing with this again is because I did the installation for a friend and he said the alarm went off some how by the remote start.    He asked if there was a way to disable the alarm. Right now he has to disable the alarm and then remote start the car. Since it has been a few months since I messed with it, I'll attempt using the lt.GREEN/ orange wire again. I'm just looking for an easier way out if I fail again, haha. Thanks.