Remote Programming, Boa 265

Alright fellas, I have a problem.

I'm using a cheap Boa 265 rms and keyless, I'm sure youve all seen or heard about these cheap suckers.  I can't get the dang remote to learn, and I've gone through all the tips on all the sites, and I'm still not getting a response.  I'm only using the unit as a keyless and door pop using the auxillary output.  I've got constant, ground, and ground to the keyless relay.......not that important.  Anyway it says turn ignition to on, and hold program 5 seconds.  Since I'm not using it for its intended use, I just ran 12v to the ignition and acc to simulate turing the key on.  I've done everything and this thing still won't program.......standing 10-15ft away, starting at 5ft and slowly moving backwards, changing the battery, everything.  Its suppose to lock/unlock to signal that it's learned, so I;m just listening for the relay to trip........nothing.  Does anybody have anything else, any help is greatly appreciated.

Thanks -JOe