Two trigger relay setup for led markers

So I understand the basic concept of relays, but getting my head around the (1st and preferable scenario) is a bit hard for me. Vehicle 96 neon, led tails and corners (in stock housings) with incandecent front turn signals. Modified flasher to elimate the "fast blinking" Inputs: Running lights (on with headlights) Turn signal lamp Controlled (output) light: Corner marker(s) Desired operational characteristics of corner marker scenario 1: -running lights on, the corner marker is on    -when the turn signal is on the corner marker turns off (opposite of turn signal lamp) -running lights off, corner marker is off    -corner marker flashes with turn signal Desired operational characteristics of corner marker scenario 2 (seems like it would be easier): -running lights on, the corner marker is on    -when the turn signal is on the corner marker turns off (opposite of turn signal lamp) -running lights off, corner marker is off    -does not flash with turn signal I think I have this one figured out see pic: '96 Plymouth neon

thanks for the reply Hoptup32. That's exactly what I want them to do and it's a lot less complicated to impliment. Much thanks'96 Plymouth neon