driving lights on high beam only

Hi,

My car is a UK mazda 323 2001+, same as the protege5 in the US.

There were no fogs or driving lights standard so bought some Ring driving lights.

I'm not sure on the US laws, but in the UK they can only come on with the high beams or when flashing the high beams, they must be off when using dipped or sidelights or off.

So far, i can get them to come on with the high beams, turn off with the dipped, but they come on again with sidelights.

i'm using 1 relay wired like this:

85 - Earth/ Ground

30 - battery positive with inline fuse

87 - to + on driving lights

86 - to switch - from switch to high beam power (at back of headlamp)

How can i stop them coming on with the sidelights?

Thanks

Thanks, i will give that a try. I have just been down to the salvage yard and picked up a few relays.

I'v been searching for info on the wiring, some places are saying it's a positive trigger, some are saying negative trigger. But nothing definative, is there a way i can check myself? would it involve a volt meter from the high beam wire to the neg on the battery? so if it was showing 12v with the high beams off it would be neg trigger? or positive?

Thanks