07 durango w/ alpine.parrot ck3100

So i am installing a parrot ck3100 in an 07 Durango with the factory radio. Its a Non-Navigation radio with the Alpine system in the car. I Originally order the Metra "T harness for bluetooth" from crutchfield.com and i had everything hooked up and working, except I could not hear the person on the other line. I called crutchfield and they said i need a different harness and they dont know which one. So then i call Metra and they said they have the ABTI-CH3 harness. I called crutchfield back to see if they carry that harness and they do not but i was able to find it on amazon, ebay, etc. Also everything i see online is saying that this harness works with the Motorola IHF 1000 Bluetooth. So my questions are...First, does anyone know if this harness (ABTI-CH3) will actually work with an 07 durango with the factory radio that is non-navigation with the alpine system. And second if it works for the car will it also work with the parrot ck3100 not just the Motorola IHF 1000 Bluetooth? Thanks for the help guys i really appreciate it