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Ravendarat 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 1:56 AM / IP Logged  
I had someone send me a pm recently that asked if I was a bully. I believe the exact quote was "You seem like the bully of car audio". Is this true? Do I seem like a bully? I am a sarcastic person by nature and I understand that mabye that sarcasim doesnt always come through when typiog in messages but I have the utmost respect for this site and the knowledge contained in it. I know this may not be the best place to post this but since 85% of my posts are here I figured it to be as good as any. In the past I have gotten into little tiffs with people and for that I do not appologize because I felt they were all justified unless I said so otherwise ( remember appoligizing at the end of at least one post because I let something from my personal life bleed over). I hate the fact that I may be thought of in this way and if I am I would love to know it so I can change it. Its like 1:00 am here know so I am out but hope to hear back, either good or bad, and I dont want any type of suger coating either. If I am an a***ole than I am an a***ole and I will deal with it but if not and it was only one persons opinion then I will deal with it on a personal level with him.
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Steven Kephart 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 2:16 AM / IP Logged  

I know that we have disagreed about some things, but I never thought of you as a bully.  In fact on the things we did disagree on, I thought you handled yourself very maturely and politely. 

Steven Kephart

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MBZ oe 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 2:49 AM / IP Logged  

Don't worry man. Screw them. Lets keep it honest hear. I need real, accurate, raw info and opinions. I can turn on the tv and get plenty of filtered, garbage. This forum is alive and crackin'. Lets keep it that way. I'm glad you hurt someone's feelings with your opinion because they probably needed that. Can't be so "sensitive" in todays times. Different strokes for different folks. Just like some people love Audiobahn, but not me.

Besides, when I see your screenname - RAVENDARAT, I always think " RAVE AND RANT" and I mean that in a good wayAm I a bully? -- posted image.

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tbirdman74 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 7:46 AM / IP Logged  
I agree with MBZ oe.  The good thing about getting your feelings hurt, it lets you know that you still have them.  Helluva lot better then being a cold bitter person.  We can all seem like A***oles in some of the posts, but sometimes things just need to be said that aren't very nice, and I am glad that there are still people around with enough juevos to do it.  Nuff said.
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 7:55 AM / IP Logged  
you answered a question of mine not too long ago, and im very hurt by the truth. You should be banned from these forums because you know so much.
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rather have 1 of you on these forums than 10 other people that dont know what they are talking about
fuseblower 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 10:09 AM / IP Logged  

Raven,

Some people just can't stand the truth or when others disagree with them.  But if they think you are a bully that's their opinion.  We all know that an opinion is like an azz, everyone has one.  I log on to the 12volt everyday and think that everyone handles himself or herself with professionalism.

We all may seem a little pushy at times but that's our feelings in regards to what we believe in.  All in all I don't think your bullish just expressing your opinion and passing on knowledge...

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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 1:16 PM / IP Logged  

I have never had to delete one of your posts and what I remember, your information is accurate. Typing in forums is the worst when it comes to emotions and such because you can not tell how a person is trying to communicate with you and what their intentions are aside from what is written. I believe that the information that most member's post here are indeed truthful and accurate ( in their minds ), but unless convinced otherwise by other's member's, they will have their own beliefs on that certain topic. My 2c's of Philosophy

Jeff
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heavilymedicate 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 1:29 PM / IP Logged  

There was a post i read the other day, not sure who wrote it, think it was you(looked and could not find it), went something like this:  "You twat.  We need someone fulltime to run around the forums fixing the mis-information you spread."

I loved it.  Some people are mis-informed, some people lack knowledge, some people are twats who spread their stoopid ideas and opinions on the internet.  That’s the spirit!

Some things need to be said.  More then once I have read a post and thought I should respond with some smartass remark to set them straight, but im new and minding my myself for a while.  You often make those remarks for me and I feel ok about letting something slide.

Car audio is what I come to these forums for.  I think we all share a passion for it and when your passionate about something your feelings tend to get involved.  Some people cannot take a criticism or correction to their beliefs without taking a hit to their ego.  Thus, feelings get hurt sometimes, you big 12volt bully.

Besides anyone who can appreciate Mallrats enough to quote Brodie in their sig line is gonna be a sarcastic sh*t and thats fine  by me.

kfr01 
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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 1:54 PM / IP Logged  

You always give solid advice and good, well thought out reasons for your opinions.  I for one really enjoy your input and I appreciate your contribution to the board.  You are one of the people whose posts I always make sure to read because I know you have something good to say.  Even if I disagree with you on something, I have nothing but respect for your opinion, and enjoy that you aren't afraid to share your feelings.

Keep it up man! 

Karl

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Posted: September 08, 2004 at 2:38 PM / IP Logged  
Thanks, I do what I can  Am I a bully? -- posted image. BTW: what do you think of your 4004T ? I'm thinking of getting a 4 channel for my set up instead of the 3 channels that i have now.
Jeff
Velocity Custom Home Theater
Mobile Audio/Video Specialist
Morden, Manitoba CANADA
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