Hey KLEENACCORD,
Basically what you want is extra channels from your system. Go to the relay section of this site and look for "Special Applications" then "One Channel to Multiple Outputs".
Also I use a system which works for me requiring a couple of relays and caps which allows me to do drivers door priority unlock with standard lock/unlock wires. But first of all, take a look at the above link and see what you're getting into before we go farther. 
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I am looking for the (-)when armed to "act" as a toggle.
how does this sound?
Take channel two(-) validity output, convert it to +12v
for relay use.
Use (-) when armed to serve as the Switch for the coil and my outputs would be 87, and 87a.
It looks good in my head.
Hey kleenaccord45,
In theory your idea should work but in practice is a different matter. For example if the relay changes states too quickly then 87a might not had enough time to send the signal to the device. It's all a matter of how much of a delay there is on the ground-when-armed and how fast the electrons travel in the coil of the relay to be technical. Try it and see. 
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Hey Big Dog
Just for kicks, can you post your relay / cap setup for doing the driver priority unlock with standard lock / unlock wires? I saw your reply to me in the other forum regarding what I need to do for my 2001 Yukon. I spent a little time looking at the factory service manual which has detailed schematics for the Yukon and it looks like I might be able to do the driver priority unlock without having to resort to cutting wires or going into the door. I'd like to give your setup a try when I go to put in my alarm next weekend.
Thanks much!
Hey AlvinWang,
I'd be surprised if you could do drivers door priority without cutting wires. This doesn't include of course guys who add relays to the OEM remote and activate it with the aftermarket keyless systems.
My idea is too complicated to explain in text form and unfortunately I can't attach the diagram to this post ( maybe I should suggest it in the new ideas section ). Instead I sent you an email according to your profile with the document attached in PDF format. 
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