Avalon Break switch for remote start

Hey all,

I am in the process of installing a Bulldog remote starter on my 2000 Avalon, and it has gone rather easily thus far, until I got to the very last wire to connect, which needs to attach to a "+12 volt wire at the break switch".
The wiring chart on their site says it is red with a blue stripe, and the manual says it should test positive only when the break peddle is pressed.
I found a RED / blue near the fuse box that is negative always, and a RED / blue near what i think is the break switch, but it is positive always.

Now I am not sure if i am even testing hte right wires,  I can't physically get anywhere near what i think is the 'break switch.'



The manual says that if it is not there, then I need to attach the wire to the rear break light, this seems like more of a hassle for me to do.

 

Does anyone know if I can connect to the wire that runs to the rear break light under the dash or in the kick plate or someplace else? 

I have now spent many hours looking for this wire,
Any ideas?
Anyone else have have a problem like this?

Thanks,
George

2000 Avalon XL