Command Start

Please!

I am in no way a mechanic so i dont even know where to begin, but i have a mechanic freind that is coming over to help me, but he has been out of the industry for a while, could someone please walk me through the steps to install the start and the door lock features, where the wires are located, sorry if this sound difficult  but i have had this thing for a whike and want to get it installed.

|       ITEM      |     WIRE COLOR     |POL|       WIRE LOCATION        |
|              12V|red                 |+  |ignition harness            |
|          STARTER|yellow or purple    |+  |ignition harness            |
|         IGNITION|pink                |+  |ignition harness            |
|  SECOND IGNITION|white *5            |+  |ignition harness            |
|   THIRD IGNITION|pink/white *1       |+  |ignition harness            |
|        ACCESSORY|orange              |+  |ignition harness            |
|       POWER LOCK|lt. blue            |*2 |either door boot            |
|     POWER UNLOCK|white               |*2 |either door boot            |
|       LOCK MOTOR|gray                |   |drivers kick panel          |
|     UNLOCK MOTOR|tan                 |   |drivers kick panel          |
|    DISARM DEFEAT|tan                 |   |passengers kick panel       |
| PARKING LIGHTS +|brown               |   |switch or fuse panel        |
|       HEADLIGHTS|yellow              |+  |at switch                   |
|     DOOR TRIGGER|purple or ppl/wht   |-  |light switch                |
|       TACHOMETER|white *3            |   |ECM *4                      |
|       BRAKE WIRE|white               |+  |at brake pedal switch       |
|     HORN TRIGGER|black               |-  |at column                   |
|           WIPERS|purple              |+  |steering column             |
|  LF WINDOW UP/DN|dk. blue - brown    |A  |at drivers door switch      |
|  RF WINDOW UP/DN|light blue - tan    |A  |drivers door or boot        |
|  LR WINDOW UP/DN|green - purple      |A  |drivers door or boot        |
|  RR WINDOW UP/DN|lt. grn - pur/wht   |A  |drivers door or boot        |

Notes:
*1 The pink/white does not exist on all models.   *2 5 wire (type C) on the two door models, and positive trigger (type A) on the four door and keyless entry models.  *3 Tach wire on the 6.5 Diesel is white at the instrument cluster. Diesel wait to start wire is dk. blue (-) located at the instrument cluster.  *4 ECM located on drivers side inner fender well. Two plugs, white wire in plug marked white.  *5 Make sure to enable second ignition wires for remote starts to prevent possible transmission damage and the check engine light from coming on.