remote starter

hi all, i have a remote starter/alarm kit. i have the alarm hooked up, now for the starter. i'm installing in 07 aveo, and need help wiring up this relay please. please explain.

According to that picture the relay will do nothing.  According to what they have drawn, there is positive voltage on both windings of the coil.  Since they misspelled relay, I am going to assume that they also marked the yellow wire as a positive wire.  You should cut the start wire at the ignition switch, a few inches from the switch, but in that area.  When you cut the wire, connect the end that goes to the key to terminals 30 and 86 of the relay.  Connect the yellow wire to terminal 85, and connect the starter end of the cut wire to terminal 87A of the relay.

And at a guess looking at the diagramme it won't work either especially if it uses oil pressure switch rather than tach sensing. That yellow wire should be a GWA or ground when armed.
Experience with these products says don't bother.

Hey guys im having almos the same problems! can someone please help to understand the relay istallations! my question is on the 87a and 35where do im going to hook up the other end of 35? in the driagram it says "Starter motor"but it also connected to the 87a terminal!