99 Ford Windstar Remote Starter Install

Hello, I'm installing a Crimestopper RS999TW1 in a 99 Ford Windstar. I've got a couple wiring diagrams (including here) and I'm getting conflicting information. Two diagrams say that the parking light is Yellow/Light blue in the Front Electronic Module and two diagrams say that I need to use diodes and what not...

Which one is correct?? The diagram from this site says the wire is in Pin 21 of 22 pin connector in the front bcm...

Neither are correct.....there are NO diodes needed for this project.

The wires are multiplexed, and need to be "broken" with a relay.

Heres a link to a DEI diagram on how to do this rig......there are actually 3 wires needed   WoW!

http://www.directechs.com/techtips/pdfs/resources/security/directed_techtips/1072.pdf

http://www.directechs.com/directwire/wire_body.asp?action=select&yr=2182&product=Remote%20Start

97 windstar....

You da man!  Thanks a bunch, I have the factory service manuals, and had located all the places I assumed I would use, but for safety and as a sanity check, I wanted to have that information from Directed, as they have the experience with their product, and I want this to work the 1st time and not have to fool around with it to make it work!  :)

As another note, I want to do the following with the system, (the DEI Python 881XP)

http://www.directechs.com/guides/manuals/ig/python/N564P_6-03.pdf

Progressive Unlock, I assume from the manual (link above) it ties up the ch 4. (H2/3) Output for the remaining doors, anyway around this, because...

- I want to be able to (from remote) turn on added exterior lighting for the liftgate area (hitch lighting, 2x55w hitch lights under vehicle that illuminate exterior loading/unloading area, most of my service work is performed 3rd shift), latch mode, push once- they turn on, again- off unless ignition turned on- then they turn off.

- I want to be able to (preferably with 1 remote channel) open or close rear powered popout windows, perhaps push once they open, push again, they close unless ignition is started, then I want them to close.

- I want, when the system arms, to vent the front windows 1" (always, as I have Vent-Visors and rain isn't an issue) And when the Ignition starts, in addition to locking the doors, I want the front windows to close.

I know this sounds extreme, but that's why I bought "the top of the line" here, I assume this will be a relay nightmare, and I bought a dozen of those, but I am hoping that none of the conditions will leave a relay energized draining the battery.  I went ahead and had a local shop order in 530T window units (2) and a 508D dual zone sensor.  And online, ordered a bitwriter (gee, I wish I could find the PC programming interface kit somewhere!)  So now I seek advice, suggestions, (and warnings!) from the experienced participants of this forum.  Show me your IQs here, and as always, I appreciate any assistance here!