2004 4runner remote starter

Finally got it squared away, kind of a stupid oversight/interpretation on my part.  Since I tapped into the IMI wire at the ECM and not the Transponder Key Computer, I should have realized that "connector side" and "car side" would change in relation to the diagram and the connector.  Duh.  Once I swapped them out, I had to reset the 1100x twice, and it worked on the second go round.  Thanks again for your assistance.

Having one more issue I need to square away, and I think it's due to a car feature and not the remote starter.  When I turn the car off remotely, or it runs out of time after 10 min's remotely started, the dash lights and some accessories stay powered up until the drivers door is opened.  Same thing happens when I just put the key in the ignition, turn it to ON then back off and take it out.  There's no power coming from the remote on any wires when this happens.  I believe Toyota called this the retained power feature, or something similar?  Any ideas on how to deal with this?  Just concerned if the car gets remote started accidentally, these features will stay on and eventually drain the battery...  Just when I thought I was done!