disable door solenoid when alarm is activ

This is now getting silly, I wouldn't have to give my 15 year old grandson this much help. Doubt if you can buy these over the counter. Google to Digikey. Enter Latching relays. The next page gives you the choice of signal or power. Chose power or high power. Apply filter at top, 12VDC, dual coil latching, DPDT. You will then be given a page of choices, any of going down the page, numbers 1, 2 or 5. Right hand side gives you data sheets with layout.

Lol sorry buddy didn't mean to wiz you off as I said earlier I have verry little experience in this so monstly the terms and such confuse me ahah but anyways I understand well now and I really do appreciate all the help you have given me as I know not many people would be willing to sacrifice all their time in explaining this to me and makeing the diagrams for me. Your a good man I appreciate you being pacient with me anf lay everything out do simple for me