Starter Kill Relay

I have a viper system in my 1998 mustang (viper 500+).  Recently when we changed the battery the alarm went nuts.  Just opening hte door would set it off.  Finally a guy from goodyear came out and bypassed it somehow.  A week later the car failed to start, the viper had armed itself somehow.  It just wouldnt let me start the car.  I pushed the valet override button whiel the key was in 'on' position and tried to crank it - nothing happened.  I eventually had to pop the clutch to get home.  I called a viper certified center and they said its probably a starter kill relay problem.  I found hte relay, its a rectangular black box with about 6 or 7 pins.  Can anyone tell me how to wire this so i can start the car?  Any ideas? thanks alot!

its simple find the

STARTER  WIRE

WHITE/ PINK

IN IGNITION HARNESS

This wire is cut in half you just have to connect it together and it will work like a brand new....leshka