alpine Rue - 4165 remote question

High i just recently purchased a Rue -4165 remote control for the cva -1005. But i have a problem, i dont know how to make a dvd play. i means it plays but when it get to menu i dont know how to scroll around the main screen options, like play dvd, extras , options, ect.. and most importantly i cant make the video run it just sits there in main menu.. Also when it goes to FM Radio stations the remore wont work at all. i press the buttons while its in dvd and it works, volume, toggle between bass, treble.. ect.. but it just wont let me woork the dvd functions. is there like a programming procedure or something. i bought new. the old one didnt want to work at all. but i noticed this remote doesnt have the navigation toggle on the right side. can someone help please.. :) thanksOh BOY!