Second Starter Wire

I know this is basic but I dont want to goof it up...

I need to energize a (+) second starter wire with the (-) 200mA output wire on my DEI remote start.  I know that I need a SPDT relay to do this because 200mA is not enough to energize the second starter wire.  Can someone please tell me what 30, 85, 86, 87, and 87A need to be wired to?

This is the last wire I need to hook up and I should be set!

Thanks in advance!

Great responses!  Thanks much for the wiring help!  I have a question though about sparkie's reply. 

Do you mean that if I use the 200mA output to energize more than one relay I need to diode isolate each to prevent battery drain?

Could you please give me a little more detail on when you would use diodes and where they need to be used?

Thanks

You guys/girls are great!

87 goes to second ign of vehicle

85 to groundout when running of  remote start unit

with 6amp diode gray band facing unit

86 first ign of vehicle

30 to 12 volts fused.

Now Im a little worried,

I have two conflicting responses as how to wire the relay properly.  cntrylvr79 has it one way.  dea,can has it another way. 

Let me be more specific.  I have a 99 Nissan Altima and am installing a DEI562T.  I need to use the small purple wire off the 4 pin harness (- 200mA) to energize a relay to send a +12 volt to the second starter wire.  I hope this helps.  I thank everyone for the responses, but please let me know which ones are correct in my case.

Thanks~!