08 f150 hid

Ok I have a 08 F150 FX2 5.4 and I installed HID lights in her and everything works fine WHEN THE FOG LIGHTS ARE OFF When there on and I go from hi beam to low beam they get stuck on hi beam. Here is my question... There is a thing called Bambi Vision mod that I need to do that keeps the fog lights on when going to hi beam lights the problem is I only have the instructions for mode year up to 06. Here is the link on how to do it then a pic of my problem..... http://www.landstromsfoundry.com/Tech/FordFoglight/F150Foglights.html

The problem I am having is that I pulled the relay out of the socket and checked the trucks hand book and it was the right relay and mine if a 4 prong relay and the one in the instructions is a 5 prong. I am missing the middle  prong of the 3 in the instructions. SO I need my fogs to stay on like in the bambi vision instructions listed above with the relay I have. Do I just bend the same prong listed in them or something else. Thank you very much for any help I can get!!!!!Jon

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