97 Grand Am, DEI 555L Wiring?

I purchased a DEI 555L to bypass the Passlock I on a 97 Grand Am.  There are 2 wires which I'm confused about and not sure where they go.

Violet (-): Input from starter relay.  Connect this wire to the (-) starter output of the remote start system.  I can't find a wire labled similar to this...... can anyone give me some hints? 

Checking my manual I cannot find a wire with this label...... or anything even close. 

Blue/Black: (-) Status input.  I have a non-DEI brand remote starter. 

I have a Yellow wire labled "ground when running".  Is this the correct wire for the Blue/Black?

Below is a link to my wiring diagram, if someone could point me to the correct wires I would appreciate it.

http://www.ozarkimaging.com/matts/diag.jpg

Thanks for any help. :)

Thanks for the reply zargon, I appreciate it!

I'm kind of new to the relays.  Will wiring it as shown here accomplish the same thing as what you mentioned?  I assume it will, but I want to make sure.  Also, you mention 2 negative pins (85 and 87) do the wires from these just go to ground?

As soon as I get your reply, I'll start wiring.

Thanks

Are you 100% positive on that?  The manual says all those wires are required for a Passlock I install... they aren't required for Passlock II however....

That's what I thought. :)

I hooked up the relay as zargon specified....... but the car won't stay running for more than 1-2 seconds.  The "good" news is that when it dies, there is absolutely no theft light.  Any ideas as to why it's deing so quickly?  I tested the BLACK/ White wire and the Violet wire coming from the bypass module and they read just under 12V constant even when they aren't hooked to anything.  I was under the impression that these wires were supposed to be -.