Your link doesn't work but I assume it's an SPDT aka changeover or 5-pin relay in which case the higher rating is for the NO (Normally Open) contacts which are the ones you'd be using.
The lower rating (ie 30A) is for the NC (normally Closed) contacts since they only have spring pressure to keep them closed - not the stronger force of the solenoid aka coil.
The following are a few methods to test current, but unless I had a suitable ammeter I'd probably sacrifice a few fuses. IE - try a 30A, then 20A. then 15, 10, 5A etc until they blow.
Note that fuses will blow immediately or quickly only if their rating is greatly exceeded, eg, a 10A fuse will take 10 seconds to blow with a 15A load; 1 sec @ 25A, and hours at 12A.
DO NOT BURN YOURSELF on the fuses, a normally operating fuse may be quite hot, tho normally they should run no worse than warm (eg, normal current should generally be no higher than 70-80% of fuse rating).
If I were you I'd probably parallel all horns to the fuse you select for the distribution (ie, wiring & relay) and see if that blows or gets very hot. Then I'd upgrade the wiring or relay if needed rather than running 2 circuits - that's assuming the cost is ok & redundancy etc is not required.
Note that the fuses in the circuit posted are NOT to protect the horns- one fuse per horn is required for that, and even then I doubt they can be protected (a bit like LEDs and most single-component loads).
Otherwise an ammeter is required to test the current.
A DMM or multimeter on 10A range could be used assuming they are less than 10A and don't have too high an inrush current. But they don't look like they'd be over 10A, and DMM 10A ranges are unfused and should handle short peak currents over 10A.
TIP - return the DMM test lead to the normal volts-ohms-mA socket as soon as finished with the 10A range. Nothing worse than testing next time on the 20V or other voltage range and wondering why there are sparks and the DMM or tested circuit is smoking, but a 10A shunt (ie, essentially a short circuit) between its -ve & -ve leads will do that!
Another method may be to series connect with a 55W or 100W globe etc and connect across a 12V battery. The ratio of their voltages should be the ratio of their currents (eg, 55W => ~4A) but that's only a guide due to non-linearities with lamps etc, but should be good enough to determine if close to 4A, 6A, 15A etc.
Could do similar with 2 or 3 series horns to measure their current if your ammeter has limited range. EG - you suspect 20A horns but only have a 10A range, hence insert the 10A meter in series with 2 or 3 series horns whereby the current should be 1/2 or 1/3rd of normal 12V current respectively. That assumes the horns have the same current, but that too can be confirmed with voltage measurement across each.
Ask if any of the above need further clarification.
Or maybe someone can chime in or search for those horn currents? (What fuse is used for them in OEM vehicles?)