2005 Subaru Legacy, DRL circuit problem

hello all, I hope you can help me out on this problem that I have. I own a 2005 Subaru Legacy GT which comes OEM with DRL's on the low beam. I changed the low beam to HID's and what I wanted to do was make the high beam act as the DRL's. This part I figured out how to do by acquiring a wiring diagram from the headlight system. This is what the diagram looks like: At the bottom of the diagram is the DRL module which shows a brown wire activating the low beams when the car starts to move. What I did is use a relay to connect the brown wire to the red wire which also comes from the DRL module and activates the high beams. I had to use a relay because if I simply spliced the brown wire to the red wire the high beams would not turn off when the low beams turn on. Now to the problem, the wires are negative ground, and I measured the negative voltage on the brown wire when it activates the DRL's and it shows a 12.5 VDC when running as DRL's and 14VDC when tunning as regular low beams. Of course for the high beams this voltage is too high and makes the lights too bright. What I want to do is lower the voltage on the brown negative wire to around 10 VDC when the DRL's are running. I used the OHM's calculator on the site, and if I am not mistaken the lights are using around 10 AMPS. Am I also correct to assume that the voltage is around 120 watts (60 watts X2) or is the load only 60 watts? (each lightbulb is 60 watts). So my question is can I use a resistor on the negative brown wire before it connects to the red wire, and if so what resistor can I use. If not how would I handle this problem? TIA Xavier

No, they aer two separate bulbs. H7's in a projector, and 9005 or is it 9006? Whichever is for high beams. For the diagram it appears they share the positive, and get switched on from the negavite side.

Yes I understand all the good and bad things about DRL's, but that is not the question here. I have separate bulbs for low beam, and high beam, so I am not trying to use the HID's as DRL's. This is a project that will not only benefit me, but a whole bunch of other people. I already have the high beams DRL's working, the only problem is that they are too bright, thus I need to reduce the voltage, that is it. I think I have narrowed it down to needing a 1 ohm rsistor, I just need to find the right one, and something that will not burn. Thanks again, Xavier