2001 civic remote start

I wonder if somebody has run into this problem,I have been installing remote starters for about ten years and this civic is got me stumped,I used the by pass module for the transponder it starts,locks and unlock.I cannot get it to  disarm when the factory remote is used.I thaught I found the arm and disarm wires by trigerring the door locks but still the same.Any body has any suggestions to what wire is the arm and disarm.I just did a 03 Accord and no problems.Thanks in advance.

not sure if its the same as the later 2004 model but they only arm/disarm via the remote.

2001 civic  disarm/unlock white wire @ alarm modul, pin A3 double pulse NEG(-)  Drivers kick white box