Thanks guys.  I do not have DRL (daytime running lights) or autolights.  I am currently hooked into the WHITE/ violet wire as that is the one that tested right.  Strange though as this list says a different wire.  So you think I toasted my headlight switch?  Makes sense I guess.  But if thats the case, and I have the right wire, how am I suposed to hook up my parking lights?  I have it hooked to the WHITE/ violet about 12" from the switch itself.   Am I suposed to tap into it after a junction or relay or something?  
ckeeler,
So your saying I don't have the 3 wire negative I have the 5 wire reversal?  That means I need a relay setup according to my manual.  By the way I am installing an Omega REC-11+.
Thanks again guys for your help.  Here is what I found on this site for wiring for my truck.
Here is what Audiovox lists for the 08 F350: 
                #512299: 2008 FORD F350 2DR TRUCK 
     Audio/Mobile Video                                         
     WIRE          COLOR          POLARITY          LOCATION      
     Battery          WHITE/ RED          (+)          RADIO HARNESS      
     Accesory          BLUE          (+)          RADIO HARNESS      
     Ground          BLACK/ BLUE          (-)          RADIO HARNESS      
     Illumination          VIOLET/GRAY          (+)          RADIO HARNESS      
     Amp Turn On          VIOLET/RED          (+)          RADIO HARNESS      
     LF Speaker (+)          WHITE      
     LF Speaker (-)          WHITE/ BROWN      
     RF Speaker (+)          WHITE/ VIOLET      
     RF Speaker (-)          WHITE/ ORANGE      
     LR Speaker (+)          WHITE/ GREEN      
     LR Speaker (-)          BROWN / YELLOW      
     RR Speaker (+)          BROWN / WHITE      
     RR Speaker (-)          BROWN / BLUE      
     Steering Cntrls          OPTIONAL      
     Radio Security          YES      
     Security                                         
     WIRE          COLOR          POLARITY          LOCATION      
     Battery          BLUE/RED          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
               FOR HIGH CURRENT LOAD GO TO VEHICLE BATTERY      
     Ignition 1          WHITE/ ORANGE          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     Starter 1          BLUE/WHITE          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     All Door Trigger          VIOLET          (+)          UNDER DRIVERS SILL IN HARNESS COMING FROM PASS SIDE      
               GREEN WIRE UNDER DRIVERS SILL IN HARNESS COMING FROM PASSENGER SIDE      
     Domelight Super          GREEN/ BLUE          (-)          HEADLIGHT SWITCH      
     LF Latch          GREEN/ VIOLET          (OPEN)          IN HARNESS IN DRIVER KICKPANEL      
               THESE TRIGGERS REST AT (-) AND ARE OPEN WHEN THE DOOR IS OPEN      
     RF Latch          WHITE          (OPEN)          IN HARNESS IN PASSENGER KICKPANEL      
     Parking Lights          BLUE/GRAY          (-)          HEADLIGHT SWITCH      
               IF THE VEHICLE IS EQUIPPED WITH AUTO HEAD LAMPS USE MUST USE TWO RELAYS. ONE RELAY WILL GET CONNECTED TO WHITE/ VIOLET(HEADLAMP OFF) THE OTHER WIRE WILL GET CONNECTED TOVIOLET/GREEN(AUTOLAMP ON). WITHOUT AUTOLAMP ONLY ONE RELAY ON HEADLAMP OFF.      
     Low Crr Pk Lights          VIOLET/WHITE          (+)          DRIVERS KICKPANEL      
     Convenience                                         
     WIRE          COLOR          POLARITY          LOCATION      
     Headlights-Lo          YELLOW/BLUE          (-)          HEADLIGHT SWITCH      
     Parking Brake          WHITE/ VIOLET          (-)          AT VEHICLE PARKING BRAKE SWITCH      
     Seat Mem 1          VIOLET/WHITE          (-)          IN HARNESS IN DRIVER KICKPANEL TO DOOR      
     Seat Mem 2          YELLOW          (-)          IN HARNESS IN DRIVER KICKPANEL TO DOOR      
     Remote Start                                         
     WIRE          COLOR          POLARITY          LOCATION      
     Battery          BLUE/RED          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
               FOR HIGH CURRENT LOAD GO TO VEHICLE BATTERY      
     Ignition 1          WHITE/ ORANGE          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     Accessory 1          VIOLET/GREEN          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     Accessory 2          BROWN / YELLOW          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     Starter 1          BLUE/WHITE          (+)          IGNITION SWITCH      
     Anti-Theft Type          FORD PATS® OR SECURILOCK® VEHICLE IMMOBILIZER      
     Anti-Theft Descript          THE KEY SENDS AN RF SIGNAL TO THE BCM MODULE THROUGH AN ANTENNA LOCATED AROUND THE IGNITION CYLINDER      
     Key Sense          BLUE/GRAY          (+)          STEERING COLUMN HARNESS      
     Tachometer          BLUE          (AC)          AT HARNESS NEXT TO BRAKE PEDAL      
               SEE THE PICTURE IN DOCUMENT SECTION      
     Speed Sense          YELLOW/BLUE          (AC)          AT ABS CONTROL MODULE      
               ALSO AT WIPER MOTOR      
     Parking Lights          BLUE/GRAY          (-)          HEADLIGHT SWITCH      
               IF THE VEHICLE IS EQUIPPED WITH AUTO HEAD LAMPS USE MUST USE TWO RELAYS. ONE RELAY WILL GET CONNECTED TO WHITE/ VIOLET(HEADLAMP OFF) THE OTHER WIRE WILL GET CONNECTED TOVIOLET/GREEN(AUTOLAMP ON). WITHOUT AUTOLAMP ONLY ONE RELAY ON HEADLAMP OFF.      
     Low Crr. Pk Lights          VIOLET/WHITE          (+)          DRIVERS KICKPANEL      
     Brake Lights          VIOLET/WHITE          (+)          BRAKE SWITCH      
     Reverse Lights          GREEN/ BROWN          (+)          IN HARNESS IN DRIVER SILL PANEL      
     Horn          YELLOW/RED          (-)          STEERING COLUMN HARNESS      
     Modules                                         
     WIRE          LOCATION                          
     Please select another category 
     Doorlocks/Windows                                         
     WIRE          COLOR          POLARITY          LOCATION      
     Door Lock Circuit          3 WIRE NEG      
     Power Unlock          YELLOW/VIOLET          (-)          DRIVERS SIDE KICK PANEL      
               WITHOUT KEYLESS ENTRY 5 WIRE REVERSE POLARITY      
     PowerLock          BLUE/GREEN          (-)          DRIVERS SIDE KICK PANEL      
               WITHOUT KEYLESS ENTRY 5 WIRE REVERSE POLARITY      
     Driver Mtr Unlock          VIOLET/GRAY          (+)          DRIVERS SIDE KICK PANEL      
     Driver Mtr Lock          GRAY/BROWN          (+)          DRIVERS SIDE KICK PANEL      
     Pas Mtr Unlock          BROWN / GREEN          (+)          UNDER PASSENGER SIDE DOOR SILL PLATE