wiring spdt relay with multiple accessories

rocgalant wrote: So pin 86 (the remote turn on wire) would serve the same purpose as having a 87a (NC)? Pin 86 will tell the relay when to 'activate?'

wait, what? you are talking apples and oranges. the 85 and 86 pin connect to the coil which when energized causes a switch to move inside the relay. the 87 and 87a pins are part of the actual switch that moves. even on a SPDT relay you would not be using the 87a normally closed pin. so it doesn't make a difference, in your situation, if you choose to go with a SPST relay. you are simply using your remote wire to activate a switch that will be able to send more current to your devices.

I got you. Thanks again for your help!