valet 561r arming itself after unlocking

now if i remember correctly i had run into this scenario before at Circuit City, when i remote started without disarming the alarm would go off. i brought it back and had them fix this. which they did but the problem was the alarm was somewhat crippled because anybody that would unlock the door through an open window would automatically disable the alarm,  also if  the alarm led light would stop blinking after a short amount of time.  basically the alarm didn't go off. so to make a long story short i had them fix it back to the way i have it now because everything works except for the inconvenience of not able to look through walls. cl