python 1400xp civic alarm problems

Hey guyz. Im in process of installing this alarm with remote start and this is duch a hassle. I went and plugged most everything up except for auxiliary harness (h2) and the remote start auxiliary harness wiring. I think i connected everything else right. The car will start but the actual remote will not work. my lights will not flash when i press the lock or unlock button. I do not have power locks but i tried to set up the light so it honked and flashed with alarm. this is how i plugged them in. I also did not use the relay because it came with a paper that said applications and civic wasnt on there. I tried to plug it in and leave the other wires not spliced not connected but it still didnt work. cars is a 93 civic si hatch feel free to call me with any info. 813-220-3061 any help is much appreciated H1 RED / White - n/a Red- BLACK/ white IGN harness Brown - blue/red horn relay Black - chassis ground Violet - n/a Blue - n/a Green - n/a BLACK/ White - n/a WHITE/ Blue - hood pin White - RED / black on dimmer switch Orange - n/a H2 violet/black - n/a GREEN / WHITE - n/a gray/black - n/a light GREEN/ black - n/a Door Lock no connected Relay Satellite (ribbon harness) - connected H3 BLACK/ White - spliced into ground Violet/White - blue wire on cluster plug Brown - GREEN / WHITE brake switch Gray - spliced into hood pin Blue/White - n/a H4 blue - n/a green - n/a Relay Satellite Purple - BLACK/ white IGN starter side Green - BLACK/ white IGN key side Red - white IGN harness Orange - n/a Pink - BLACK / YELLOW IGN harness Red - white IGN harness Pink/White - n/a RED / White - white IGN harness i really need some advice guyz. Why in the world would my lights not turn on anymore. Also on the plug connected to the light switch there is one cord that was stuck into a hole in the srs airbag plug. I have a sir steering wheel so i have no airbag. feel free to call me with any info. 813-220-3061 any help is much appreciated

n/a = not connected

27 views guys. at least if i could get my headlights to work ill be happy. for now..

Also deducing from your post i can tell you are spanking brand new at this, so on the light issue, have you connected the plug at the stalk if yes, check your fuses, there are two boxes one under the dash and the other in the engine bay!commit your way to jehovah and he will act in your behalf. psalms 37:5

Ok i fixed the head lights and i rewired the red to the constant 12v which is the fat white one and the alarm blinks and stuff now. sometimes it doesnt work and sometimes it doesnt. Also in manual it says that when the orange is hooked up it will send a negative power to the box which is the cut off. When i ground it out my car wont turn on at all. when i take it off the ground it starts fine. Also my light for my alarm is constantly on. It doesnt go off.... If it will make it easier please call me 813-220-3061