2003 maxima and viper 5902

well ive been installing the 5902 for about 7 hours now and im at the point that im stuck with the remote start section of the alarm.the H3 10 pin connector is giving me the issues.here are the car color codes and the remote color codes.ive been hacking away at these connections for hours now and really need someone to show me the light i even have the bitwriter for programming and both the Idata link bypass and a XK05 bypass to use so anything you can show me the light on will be terrific!

Car Side:

12v - Blue

Starter 1 - BLACK/ red

Starter 2 - BLACK/ white

ignition - BLACK / YELLOW

accessory - red

accessory 2 - WHITE/ blue

Alarm Side:

Pink- ign in/out

RED / Wht- ign 2 flex relay input 87

Orange- acc out

Violet- Start out (car side)

Green- Start in (key side)

Red- Ign 1 input

Pink/Wht- ign 2/Flex relay output

Pink/Blk- Flex relay input 87a key side(if required) of flex relay

RED / Blk- Acc/Starter input

You didn't mention which iDatalink module you have but the XK05 will do the transponder bypass nicely.  Make sure it is flashed with the PKN2 firmware and follow the install guide.    http://www.xpresskit.com/product.aspx?productid=346#m_PKN2

Your car has two Starter wires, two Accessory wires and only one Ignition wire.  You will need to change the flex relay from it's default ( ING2 ) to Starter2.  Then you will need an additional relay ( SPDT 30/40A ) and inline fuse holder with 20 A fuse to power  the cars' second Accessory circuit.

Make the various conections just as you have them ploted out although i think you have a starter and ignition wire reversed somewhere there! The only wire you're cutting is the starter, did you test those wires or have you just listed from a wiring diagram.