avital 4103 partially working on 97 jetta

*UPDATE*

I Was lucky Enough to find the $11 DEI 451m Lock Relay pack in Best buy:

http://www.bestbuy.com/site/Directed+Electronics+-+Door+Lock+Interface/3294134.p?id=1218019639609&skuId=3294134&st=451m door lock relay&cp=1&lp=1 

I then purchased 2 five pin universal relays ($9 Each) which i was going to use for the Horn & Trunk release but I could not find any Diodes so... i had to use those 2 relays for the + Flash Light Input/Ouput Wire.  I continue to read several links on this site and came across this:

https://www.the12volt.com/relays/relaydiagram51.html

I will connect the Horn and Trunk wires within a week since i am busy with work and need to save a bit...

The rest of the connects that you described worked perfectly.  I will not be sitting in the cold waiting for my car to warm up this winter = )

Thanks again guys.