Remote Start help 94 Olds

Hey there,

I've got a few questions, and I was wondering if somebody could point me in the right direction.  I have a 94 Oldsmobile Cutlass Supreme, and I am installing remote start and car alarm/keyless entry into it.  Basically, I've gotten most of the thing together, but I was just wondering if you guys could give me the answers to some of my more burning questions. =P

1) I can't find my parking light wire!  I want the lights to flash when the alarm is triggered, or turned on/off.  I've got the positive wire coming out of my alarm harness, but I just can't find the parking light circuit for my car!  The print out wiring sheet I have says "Brown", but there's a lot of brown wires of different shades in my car.

2)  My car has the typical GM VATS system on it, and so I measured the resistance value of my pellet resistor in the key and found out the value for it, then went online and found a diagram for bypassing the circuit.  I picked up the relay and the resistor for it, and I'm ready to put it in, but I was wondering if somebody knew the wire colors for it? ;/  Also if you have some tips on what to do, I'd really appreciate it.

3)  Any general tips would be appreciated... Thanks guys.

--mindctrl