2 Stage Progressive Door Locks?

I want to setup my alarm so that on the disarm it only unlocks the drivers side door. Then, with the progressive unlock feature, unlock the remaining doors. (Basically pushing disarm a second time will unlock the remaining doors.) Now to add to that. The alarm has on ignition door locking that I still want to work. So when the car is started all doors are locked. When the vehicle is turned off, all doors unlock. I want to use the exsiting door locking motors that are currently in place. I have notice that if you put the key in the drivers door and turn it to the unlock position 2 times, it unlocks the rest of the doors. If you push down the door lock on the drivers door it will lock the rest of the doors also. Here is what I have:

The vehicle is a 2003 Isuzu Rodeo - 3 wire (- neg) lock/unlock setup.

POWER LOCK | lt. GREEN/ red     |-  | Drivers kick panel in a

POWER UNLOCK | RED / blue      |- | white 22 pin connector

The vehicle is the base model manual v6 - has power door locks, but not keyless entry. No factory alarm.

Viper 800esp - Has built in door lock relays - Here is the wires I have from the alarm:

The following is the "8-Pin H2 Relay Harness"

RED / White - Channel 2 relay Input #87

BLACK/ White - Domelight Supervision Relay Input #87

WHITE/ Black - Lock #87a Normally Closed

GREEN/ Black - Lock #30 Common (Output)

Violet/Black - Lock #87 Normally Open (Input)

BROWN / Black - Unlock #87a Normally Closed

Blue/Black - Unlock #30 Common (Output)

Violet - Unlock #87 Normally Open (input)

The second pulse output is coming from the "11-Pin H3 Auxiliary Output Harness"

Blue - (-) 200mA Second Unlock/Channel 7 output.

Anyone have a solution for this?

Could you or someone possibly post a diagram that I could follow with the refernce of the given info above?