Momentary Latch Relay 0v Output

Ive been messing with alot of relay (spdt and single/double coil latches) and I cant get a good circuit.

Id like to have a momentary ground pulse turn on a constant ground, then a second pulse turn it off.

I know your going to point me to the latching setups and tell me to add yet another relay, the problem is Im making 3 switches, so thats 15+ relays!!! Thats just un acceptable, Can anyone point me to a good design or where I can find a single latching relay with a non dependent coil (IE you dont have to reverse voltage), I cant seem to find any. Thanks for any input.

-Chad

OK maybe u misunderstood me, Each switch is going to control 1 output, for a total of 3 different isolated circuits, making the relay cound 15+

Id Like to cut down on the number of relays.

-Chad

this is a copy of the schematic i used:

it did not work at all...

Ive been looking for some info on turning this into a T-Flop but I just cannot find any...

When the button is pressed, the capacitor connected to the base of the conducting transistor will charge to a slightly higher voltage. When the button is released, the same capacitor will discharge back to the previous voltage causing the transistor to turn off. The rising voltage at the collector of the transistor that is turning off causes the opposite transistor to turn on and the circuit remains in a stable state until the next time the button is pressed and released. Note that in the LED circuit, the base current from the conducting transistor flows through the LED that should be off, causing it to illuminate dimly. The base current is around 1 mA and adding a 1K resistor in parallel with the LED will reduce the voltage to about 1 volt which should be low enough to ensure the LED turns completely off.

if its jammed force it - if it breaks in the process it needed to be fixed anyway