Geting new Sub, how to wire it? Ohms

Ok, I have an older RF 800a2 amp that is absolutely awsome.  I have been driving a JL 10w0 (4ohm) sub with that...and I think its time to upgrade the sub to get some more of the Amp's potential out of it.  (sealed box).

Due to hatch space limitations (I have a 1991 Rx-7), I want to stick to a single 10" system.  I have narrowed the field down to either a JL 10w6v2, or the older 10w6. 

Now, for the question:  My Amp will go down to 2 ohms, maybe even 1 ohm, but since my car is a hatch, and I am no longer 18 years old, I have no desire to crack my windshield, get a nose bleed, or make my girlfreind bra unclip just from the sound of the bass!  So, I wanted to drive the sub at 4 ohms, to get 200 watts oer channel out of the Amp.  However, the 10w6v2 wants more power than that, so I would probably need to take that sub down to 2 ohm - and 800 total watts.  The regular 10w6, can be wired at 3 ohms or 6 ohms. 

What do you guys recomend I do?  I dont want a system that hits too strong, I am not competing...just enjoying my daily driving.  Would 800 watts at 2 ohms be too much for me?  Should I go with the 3 ohm setup?  Should I look for another sub that I can wire to 4 ohms? 

Please, I would appreciate any advise.

-A

The one thing that you have going for you here is power, and tons of it. This amp will make a minimum of 200 w rms per channel @ 4ohms or 800w rms x 1 @ 4 ohms. If a one sub system is in the works for you, it somewhat limits the sub choice if you look at this conventionally. This means that you assume that you must run a 4 ohm svc sub. This is not the case. You can run a dvc 3 ohm sub or dvc 4 ohm sub or single 8 ohm sub with no problems at all. Personally if my other half was in the car, I would want to have the bra clip come undone, that's just me though . I would choose a dvc 4 ohm sub and wire it up in series. This will make it an 8 ohm sub and knock the amps power back to something reasonable so that you can actually listen to the music. The JL is a good sub, personally I would head in the direction of one Eclipse Aluminum SW8102dvc and build the proper 1.25 cu.ft sealed enclosure for it and play away to your hearts content. I think the Titanium model that Dyohn mentioned is an awesome sub, but is probably a little more than you would require.

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The very best way to get an idea of the different subs is to read posts through this forum.  It takes some time, but you will be getting opinions from a lot of knowledgeable people on the different brands.  Since music doesn't exist unless you hear it (does a tree falling make a sound?), it becomes each persons opinion based on what they each hear.  If there were a list as you ask for...it would be one person's personal opinion.

Also look through the speaker manufacturer's web sites.  Often they will flat-out tell you if a particular sub is made for loudness or if it is more musical in nature (SPL vs. SQ).  A great start would be to look closely at the speakers DYohn described.  Read up on them, then find at your local retailers and have an audition.