Honda Civic 2001 door triggers

I still need help with the triggers.

1. I was told the triggers are on a gray 8 pin plug on the driver's kick panel and I believe I found it but I don't see a GREEN / WHITE wire.  I see a blue/white wire.  So i don't think this is the right plug.

2. The dei website said it was on the green factory alarm plug above the driver's kick panel.  I see a green plug but it isn't attached to anything.  The plug is way too high for me to work on and there are wires coming out of only one end of the plug.  The plug faces downward so all I'm able to see is the plug but I can feel wires coming out of the top of it.

3. I was thinking of using the dome light.  I know the wire is GREEN/ red near the fuse box but I see a lot of these wires.  Could someone specify with a more in depth description.

Could anyone help me with any of these problems?

ya... the reason theres nothing coming out of it is cause it doesn't have a factory alarm.... they would just plug into this to install the alarm(i wish my job was that easy).   It should be christ-tree plugged into the kickpanel steel, just yank on it, it will come down, then you can work with it, I normally would not recommend Bulldog security products, but they have a plug that plugs right into it:

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Wow, I pulled it and it came down.  I isolated the triggers with diodes and they work  Thanks Defective!!

Next is the parking lights.  I found the - wire for the lights but I need the GREEN/ red + wire.  I was told it is behind the fuse box but how do get to it?  Are there any easier places to tap into the + parking lights?

Everything works great. 

Thanks to everyone who helped me out.