relay/ domelight with clifford alarm

I am not sure if I am wiring this relay correct. So here it goes 87 output to dome light / 85 to pin switches / 86 and 30 to constant 12v. Now my question is where does the grey wire from my clifford alarm connect to on the relay , the pin switch side of relay or domelight side of relay? My next qustion is the brown and red wire, does it connect to 12v or to ground? Oh by the way my alarm is a clifford intellivoice IQ. I am very frustrated at this point so any help with this subject would be greatly appreciated.

not sure what kind of car you have, weather you have a negtive or postive system. but if you look to your left and click on the "relay" you find how to wire it.

I'm assuming your doing the install on the same '57 chevy truck as in your other posts? If you've taken the advice of others and wired your domelight to negative trigger pin-switches, then all you do is ground out the BROWN / red wire. They grey wire will connect to the same wires your door pin switches do.