Durango will not start after install

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Dodge told me that with my transmission I do not have a neutral safety switch which is what I thought was wrong.  Instead I have speed sensors inside my transmissin that are used as the safety switch. 

On the wiring diagram listed on this sight it says to use a yellow wire as the neutral safety under the dash.  I found this wire and used it initially when I first noticed the problem.  I have since removed it and grounded it.  Now your saying it is black and white that I should have used.  I wonder what wire I used and if that wire screwed something up with a speed sensor or something.  It travels up near where the headlight switch is but then I loose it. 

Haven't looked into the 3rd ignition wire yet, but I am going to remove everything I did tomarrow and see if I can just worry about getting the car fised. 

Thanks for the ideas

I already did take the starter relay out and reconnected the starter disable relay.  When I crank the key I have 12 volts in the starter wire. 

But when I go under the hood and test the starter relay I get no power from the key while cranking.  I know the starter works cause if I touch a wire from the battery to the starter relay pin 87 I get the starter to start.  I'm just not getting power to that relay while cranking. 

I wrote earlier about my 2000 Dodge Durango that will not start with key after installing a remote starter and security system from Radiostar.  Thanks to all those who tried to help but I still have not had any luck except starting by bypassing the relay.  Now the problem seems to be worse. 

When I attempt to start the vehicle witht he key, the wires at the ignition switch all get 12 volts but it does not crank,  At the starter relay it does not recieve power fromt he key during start.  I am able to start the vehicle by using a wire from poss battery terminal to pin 87 of starter relay. 

Now the ABS light stays on while driving and today the Spedometer stopped working and Cruise control stopped working. 

Any ideas????  Is this a speed sensor?  A brake switch?  Or a computer problem??

Do I need to take it to Dodge or is there a way I might be able to find out what the problem is.  I live in the Twin Cities of Minnesota if anybody lives around here. 

Thanks