DEI 451m in a camaro

I am trying to finish the alarm install in my 01 camaro.  I have dei fax 1052, about using the 2 relays, but i heard that it is easier to use a 451m.  How exactly do i do this?

the wires on the car are:

lock= RED / black

driver unlock=tan

pass. unlock=gray/black

what wires on the 451m do i use?

thanks

put the purple wire to 12v constant......there is a 3 pin harness......cut the small green wire and put the green wire coming out of the 3 pin harness to the RED / black in car..............then put the other part of the green wire (the side going to the 451m) on the small blue wire.  then wire the blue/black and GREEN/ black out of the 451m to either the tan or grey/black

Or if the system that u are installing has a 2nd unlock output u can put that wire to the green wire going to the 451m.....and then put the greeen/black out of the 451m to the grey/black and the blue black out of the 451m to the tan.

get it?  let me know if it is not clear.

so far it makes sense.  I am sure that i will have some more questions when i get home, and actually take everything back apart and look at it

okay, i am now confused, can you simplify this for me a little bit?

i thought that i understood this, but i was mistaken when i took all the wires out, can you help me out again?