DEI Responder Programming Icons to Zones

Two questions that I cannot find answer for in any of the DEI docs for the Matrix 10.5: For some reason the DEI tilt sensor I purchased does not have the 4 pin connector for the Matrix's "optional" sensor port, nor can I find one that does. Does anyone know where A. I can purchase a tilt sensor with the connector, or B. find the connector to a harness (presumably with standard wire colors) or C (vest) what the pinouts of the connector are. I assume the for wires are power, ground, GWA, and trigger, just do not know which is which. The related question: The Responder remote has icons for Tilt, Glass, Ultrasonic etc. I assume there is some programming step on the remote where I can program the correct icon with the associated zone. Anyone know how to do this? Thanks Mark Farver

Red = 12V, black=ground, green or blue is a negative signal when the unit is triggered, and both can go into any negative input. I'm not sure where you'd get the connector for the port; if you go by a shop that sells DEI, they might have some extras floating around for a reasonable price... Me