CompuStar Ignition ebrake unlock

I just had a compustar 2w900fm a/s installed on a 5 speed 06 scion tc. I love the alarm but there are so minor anoyances that I wanted to know if anyone else had and perhaps any fixes that anyone could come up with. If you know about the scion tC then you might know that it has a feature that automatically turns the headlights off when the engine is turned off and you exit the vehicle. When you return to start the vehicle, the lights turn back on. It seems that since the engine stays running to set reservation mode all the way until you close all doors, this feature becomes disabled and you now must remember to always turn off your lights (there is no reminder buzzer). The second anoyance seems to be with the ignition lock/unlock (ebrake). For me it has been incredibly inconsistent. It always locks/unlock when manually starting/stopping the car with the key. However, reservation mode seems to throw things off here too. Sometimes is locks with I press the brake after auto start, sometimes it unlocks when I pull up on the ebrake but very inconsistent. Everything would be perfect if:

A: It turned off my headlights with the engine off/turned back on with engine on.

B: Everytime I pull the ebrake up or pull the key from the ignition the doors unlock. Everytime I start the engine or press the brake after unlocking the doors, the doors relock.

I was under the impression that this alarm had these features. Am I wrong, is programming missing, is my install wrong??? Just wondering the answers to these questions. My installer hasn't been very knowledgable thus far about these things (even though they are authorized). I'm hoping someone out there has some info. Thanks!