factory alarm bypass on 2000 beetle

I just put a remote start on a 2000 vw tdi beetle and everything works great except for when the car sits for about half a day or so when I remote start it the alarm goes off, but if I unlock the car first, its fine. I would like to get around the unlocking first part. I searched and found this statement "There is a PURPLE / white Ignition sense wire that you need to cut and install a relay to open the circuit during remote start. It appears to be in a tan or brown plug behind the driver dash panel." Is this the right procedure for doing this?

Also, which wire do I need to use for the parking lights? Does it need to have a diode to keep the feed away from the headlight switch?

Truck wire? Color? Location?

KarTuneMan wrote: RTheres an alarm module at the left side of the column. Fine a blk/purpl into a blue plug. This is the wire to "open" while remote started. Wire the relay like so: 85 ground while running, 86 12 volts, 87a key side of the BLACK/ purple, 30, the other side of this wire. When you R/S the car this wire will open BEFORE anyign, or accs. is energized. When you shut off, or get in the car and take off, the ground while running will no longer be present, and the relay will close, and all is back to normal....whatever normal is............

This works great!! Just wanted to update on this in case someone else is having this problem. Took me a while to try it just because it takes forever to take this car apart to get to these wires. Thanks again for your help. I never did hook up the parking lights because I heard  some people burnt out the dash lights somehow and I can look at my lcd if my car is running, plus the lights automatically flash when I lock the doors.