my wiring problems, 94 civic

Hey, guys I am having some problems with my car stereo wires. Here is the problems Im having and I hope i might get some help. I hooked up my sony exploid stereo, and when i looked on another forum and got the diagram for it and my car it is showing that this stereo has a ORANGE / white for the Illumination, but the harness does not have that wire on it. In my car I have a white wire with a blue strip on it and I dont have a clue were it goes. a red with black strip that is suppose to be for the Illumination that is coming out of my dash, big problem cause i dont know were or how to hook them up.    Next one is that I think i have found the antenna wire but im not sure. if someone could tell me what that looks like would greatly help. Also I have the Blue and blue with white strip wire coming off the wiring harness from the stereo that I have not a clue as to what they go to. Other then that my stereo works and I can listen to my cds, so if i can get some insight into my problems I would be grateful.Looks can be deceiving. ;)

By the way, my car is a 94 honda civic lx.Looks can be deceiving. ;)