Keyless Entry Confusion

I have a Autodvox Prestige  Remote Strater/Keyless Entry system (APS 685).   I got the Remote Start to work perfectly (it's been great this winter). My problem is I never got the keyless entry to do anything.

I have a 2001 Dodge Stratus SE 4 door.   The Wiring chart I have reads  it's a single wire set up  "Lock is positive thru a 1800 ohm resistor and unlock is positive thru a 750 ohm resistor.  Must use relays"

I found the resistors, bought 2 relays, I'm just confused on which wire goes to which part of the relay.  Here's the wires I have:

From the Keyless Entry:

Green is Positive lock, negative unlock

Red is Negative lock, positive unlock

RED / Black is Negative 2nd unlock

The vechile is just the WHITE/ Dark Green wire on the BCM (I found this after hurting my back)

If anyone knows of a diagram it would help me out competely.  

I wired it up.  I hear one relay clicking but the door locks won't move.    Could I possibly have the resistors wired n reverse.  Is there a direction they need to go?  

Only one relay clicks also? the lock side.  

I'm not electically inclined.  But in my mind don't you need a ground somewhere?  Is the 85 and 86 be a ground instead of having two power sources to the relay?

I'm tapping into the White wire wth the dark green strip. 

I thought I had my meter but my Dad borrow it without asking. (why did I give him a key to the garage)   I'm going to get it back from him and test the resistors and that wire to see maybe I don't have the right Ohm need or maybe I was sold the wrong resistor.