priority locks?

ok guys, noob here with a question for you.

i recently put an alarm in my car. being an 88 rex, i had to add actuators to each door. also threw an actuator on the hatch. when i press the arm/disarm button, the doors lock and the system sets. when i hit the button again, both doors unlock. is there anyway i could set it up with a driver's priority unlock? you know...

hit button once.... lock and arm

hit button once... unlock driver's door and disarm

hit button twice... unlock both doors and disarm

it's only a three button remote, and my other buttons are being used i hooked up the hatch actuator to the trunk release, and i'm using the * button to latch/unlatch neons ground lights...

any ideas? sorry if this seems to make not much sense, i just had my tooth pulled, so i'm feeling a litle loopy.... xxD