alarm arming problem

 I have a 95 Talon and I'm installing a Delta Pro 5005.  I'm having a problem getting the alarm to arm.  It won't arm, chirp, or lock the doors, while the car is off.  Every time I push the arm/disarm button on the 2way remote, it always flashes that it's unlocked (which it is), but the siren doesnt chirp.  When I hit the button again, it doesn't arm or chirp, but it tries to unlock the doors again.  When I push the button for remote start, the remote will show the car as running and the parking lights on the car come on, but the car isnt running.  While the remote thinks the car is running, I'm able to arm, disarm, and enter the programming like normal.  Also the siren chirps like it should.  I have yet to hook up the dome light input, door triggers, or remote start relay, but all else is hooked up, i.e, shock sensor, led, valet switch, and fm module for 2way remote.  Sorry about the long post, but wanted to be as clear as I could with the indications.  Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I have since hooked up the door and dome light triggers and I still have the same indications.  I'm not using the hood trigger, or any of the Aux outputs.  Might it be my factory alarm?(if I have one, where would it be?)  Anybody have any ideas?

 Ok, after unhooking and rehooking up each wire one at a time, I've got the car to be able to remote start and the door locks to work sort of. 

On the instructions I got with the alarm, it reads for the big yellow wire in the 6 pin connector and the smaller  yellow wire in the 20 pin connector as: "Connect to Ignition switch wire which is powered by 12v+ even on cranking".  I took this to mean I could hook the high current one up to the ignition and piggyback the small one off of it.  But, the only way I could find to get the remote start to work, was to remove the smaller yellow one.  If I was wrong in my thinking, where can I hook up the smaller one?

Now for the keyless entry..  When the door lock control wires from the alarm are hooked up, I can't lock/unlock the doors with the factory switch inside the door.  The factory controls only work when I unplug the control wires from the alarm.  The remote was able to lock/unlock the doors, but I had to unplug either the door lock relay or the door lock switch, I can't remember which...

One last thing..after starting, the remote shows the car is running, but about 10-15 seconds after startup, the starter engages again, like it's still trying to start.  What wire or programming feature would allow me to stop that?  I can't get in to the programming until I find a place to hook up the small yellow wire though...

Thanks in advance for any help..