2003 Taurus mirror light question

I was not 100% clear on your question. So I will ask you a series of questions.

Do you want these lights to come on similar to the interior lights?

Does these lights come on when you turn o the parking lights or open the door?

if you answer yes to question one and yes to they come when you open the door then, you can use the lamp interior supervion output from your alarm.

Hope this helps