97 F150 prostart 3400 problems

install guide:

1997 F150

I have a couple problems.

1 - can this be used only as a comand start and not a alarm?  Or do I need to hook up both for it to work?

2 - Last night I hooked up everything except the alarm, and I had it so I could get the parking lights to flash, but unable to get the vehicle to start (did not hook up alarm side, as I do not have power doors)

3 - This morning after some research I figured I hooked up one of the ignition wires incorrectly I changed it (still has 12 volts all the time) and the parking lights do not flash now, I changed it back to how it was last night and still they do not flash.

4 - I have the 2 wire harness to hook upto the neg parking light.  My truck doesn't have that, if I just hook it up to the parking light it makes a loud buzzing noise.  Do I need this wire hooked up??

Thanks

Is it possible that the "Brain" of my unit may not be working?  Is there anyway to test? I have a 97 f150 using a prostart 3400. I have doudle, and triple checked all my wiring it seems right, but the parking lights do not flash when I push the hood pin.  (I used a volt meter and at the brain of the car starter all the voltages are correct) Is there a way to test to see if I destroyed the unit?  Or how can I tell if the hood pin is working properly.