separate wires are used for igntion/starer/accessory for several reasons:
1) In some Nissans, timing of when a starter wire receives 12 volt power is crucial during cold starts of the engine; one starter wire gets engergized a split second sooner than the second starter wire. Each stater wire engerizes different components of the mechanism required to start the engine. In nissans, one starter wire energizes a check-system that analyzes the state of the engine (temperature, oil pressure, etc) a split second before the second starter wire receives power that is sent to the actual engine starter/solenoid.
2) In all vehicles, systems' circuits are separated so that if one power circuit is fried, two systems are not fried in tandem. Separate circuits allow, also, better ability to diagnose a system failure/issue
3) Your neutral wire question -- this is used by the Crime guard as a safety against starting the car when it is in gear -- Drive, 2, or L (1st/low gear). Clearly, if you were to try and start your truck when it was in drive, it wouldn't allow the engine to turn over -- so your crime guard would make three attempts to start the trunk, analyzing the tach signal each time and seeing that it never turns over during the pre-programmed start cycle time, and will then drop an error code in the memory of the crime guard. The neutral safety wire prevents the three attempts from even happening if it sees the car is in gear.
4) you do NOT need TWO additional relays (one for each starter wire). The one green output wire from the CG is in fact a relayed output 30A from the crimeguard. you just need one additional relay (as I expalined to you in thorough detail with pin numbers and everything) on Ebay. For the second ignition output, do the exact same thing with another SPDT relay that you'll need to use the CG ignition output to relay power to the second ignition wire.
5) Are you familiar with the use of a VM?
6) Read and re-read on this website how a relay works -- you need a good understanding of relays before you USE one. I would recommend against just posting on this site how to wire a relay and then going out and doing it after printing out the post ... you need to understand how a relay works -- how the small solenoid inside an SPDT relay flips the circuit from connecting the 30 pin from the 87a to the 87 pin. Know that the 85 and 86 pins need to see a 12 volt or a ground/neg. charge and that these pins sometimes needs to be diode isolated.
7) Jumper = literally twisting two wires together WITHOUT using a relay in between. This defeats the ability to isolate circuits and is always frowned upon. believe it or not, you CAN just jumper the two starter wires together and two ignition wires together and get it to work, but i woudln't if i was my truck and if anything were ever to go wrong with your tacoma, enjoy telling your toyota dealer your theory about saving $10 in relays costs and therefore jumping two pairs of wires!
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